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“We want to move somewhere smaller.”

Downsizing is the option families most often overlook, and the one that most often works. The question is usually not whether to move but how to pay for the next place.

How we are paid, and why it matters on this page

Mortgage Capital Services is compensated only if a homeowner closes a loan with us. Several options described here — selling and moving, a line of credit through your own bank, veterans’ benefits, or simply waiting — pay us nothing at all. They are listed because they are sometimes the better answer. If one of them fits your situation better than a loan, we will say so.

Samantha S. Peel
Reviewed by Samantha S. Peel, Mortgage Loan Officer NMLS #2685482 · Licensed in Georgia & South Carolina · More than 12 years working with seniors and their families in senior living before joining MCS. Last reviewed September 26, 2026.

The trap is buying with all the proceeds

The instinct is to sell, pay cash for something smaller, and be done with it. That is sometimes right. But it can leave a household asset-rich and cash-poor — owning a paid-off condo with very little in the bank and no way to get at it later without moving again. The financing choice is really a choice about how much of the sale proceeds stay liquid.

The options on the table

Every one of these is a real answer for somebody. None of them is the right answer for everybody.

Pay cash from the sale proceeds

Pays us nothing

How it works
Sell the old home, buy the new one outright, no mortgage.
Best when
The new home costs meaningfully less than the old one nets, and there is still a comfortable cash reserve left over afterward.
Watch out for
Reserve first, house second. If paying cash leaves less than a year or two of expenses accessible, consider keeping more back and financing part of the purchase.

FHA-insured HECM for Purchase

MCS may be able to help

How it works
Combine a down payment from the sale proceeds with an FHA-insured reverse mortgage to buy the new home in one transaction. No required monthly principal and interest payment while an eligible borrower occupies the home and meets loan obligations.
Best when
The buyer wants to keep a large share of the sale proceeds liquid, and intends to stay in the new home long term.
Watch out for
The required down payment is substantial. Upfront costs are real and the balance grows. The property must meet FHA standards, which rules out some condos and fixer-uppers. Independent counseling is required.

Conventional or government-backed mortgage

MCS may be able to help

How it works
A standard purchase loan with a monthly payment, qualified on income, assets, and credit.
Best when
There is documented retirement income sufficient to qualify, the buyer is comfortable with a monthly payment, and rates are favorable.
Watch out for
Qualifying on fixed income can be harder than expected, though asset-depletion methods help. A 30-year payment obligation at 70 deserves a clear-eyed look.

Proprietary reverse mortgage for purchase

MCS may be able to help

How it works
A private, non-FHA reverse mortgage, used where the home value or property type falls outside FHA limits.
Best when
Higher-value homes, or properties that FHA will not accept.
Watch out for
Not federally insured, so protections differ from a HECM. Terms, availability, and costs vary by investor and change frequently. Compare against a HECM directly before assuming it is the better fit.

Rent instead of buying

Pays us nothing

How it works
Sell, keep the full proceeds invested or in cash, and rent.
Best when
Health or family circumstances may change within a few years, the buyer is not certain about the location, or they simply do not want to own anything again.
Watch out for
Rent rises and provides no equity. But for someone who may need assisted living within five years, renting preserves flexibility that owning destroys. This is a genuinely underrated option.

When a loan against the home is the wrong answer here

A reverse mortgage for purchase is a specialized tool with specific failure modes:

  • The buyer may move again within a few years. Closing costs on the purchase plus a later sale make short holds expensive.
  • The new home is inexpensive relative to the proceeds. If the sale comfortably covers the purchase with plenty left over, adding a loan adds cost without adding much benefit.
  • The buyer will not comfortably cover taxes, insurance, HOA dues, and upkeep. These obligations continue and are the leading cause of trouble on these loans.
  • The family is counting on inheriting this house free and clear. The balance grows. That is a legitimate choice, but it should be a conscious one made out loud.
  • Nobody has compared it against simply paying cash. Run both. Sometimes the liquidity is worth the cost and sometimes it plainly is not.

Questions worth asking before anyone decides

Bring these to a family conversation, a counselor, or any lender — including us.

  1. How much will the current home net after costs, repairs, and commission?
  2. What does the next place actually cost, including HOA dues, insurance, and taxes?
  3. How much cash should stay liquid for health events and emergencies?
  4. How long does the buyer expect to stay in the new home?
  5. Have we priced the same purchase three ways — cash, conventional, and HECM for Purchase — side by side?
  6. Would renting for a year while deciding be better than buying the wrong thing quickly?

Independent places to check our work

You should never take a lender’s word as the only word. These organizations are not affiliated with Mortgage Capital Services and do not pay us or receive payment from us.

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Talk it through before you decide anything

A conversation is not an application. There is no cost, and we will tell you plainly if the answer is something other than a loan.

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Important: This page is educational and is not financial, legal, or tax advice, a recommendation, or a commitment to lend. Loan program availability, costs, and requirements are set by lenders and investors and may change. All loans are subject to credit approval and property eligibility. Reverse mortgage borrowers remain responsible for property taxes, homeowners insurance, property maintenance, and other loan obligations. Loan proceeds may affect eligibility for Medicaid, Supplemental Security Income, and other needs-based benefits. Consult a qualified financial, tax, or legal advisor about your own circumstances. Mortgage Capital Services, LLC, NMLS #2694379 · Samantha S. Peel, NMLS #2685482 · Licensed in Georgia & South Carolina · Equal Housing Opportunity.

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